Wrestling with the pain of possible.

 

Jesus said anything is possible if a person believes. Yet, some believe and remain unhealed. Why?

This a thoughtful and heartfelt question—one that countless people have wrestled with.

Jesus said in Mark 9:23,

“Everything is possible for one who believes,” yet even in Scripture and in life, we see people who believe deeply and still suffer, remain unhealed, or see their prayers unanswered. Why?

Although less than satisfying for the one that suffers, here are some perspectives that help reconcile this tension: 

1. God’s Sovereign Will Is Greater Than Our Desires

While faith is powerful, God’s will ultimately prevails.

• Isaiah 55:8-9 – “My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord.

• Sometimes, the answer is “not now” or “not this way,” not because of a lack of faith, but because God sees a bigger picture.

2. Faith Is Not a Formula

Biblical faith is not magic. It’s not: Believe + Pray = Get what you want.

• Jesus healed many, but not all.

• Paul, a man of tremendous faith, had a “thorn in the flesh” (2 Corinthians 12:7–9) that God chose not to remove—because His grace was sufficient.

3. Healing Isn’t Always Physical

Sometimes healing comes in other forms:

• Emotional healing

• Spiritual growth

• Peace in suffering

Jesus came to restore us fully—but often begins from the inside out.

4. The Presence of Faith Doesn’t Eliminate the Mystery of Suffering

Job was a righteous man, yet he suffered deeply.

• His story reminds us that some things are beyond our understanding, and trusting God in the midst of the unknown is still faith.

5. The Kingdom Is “Already, but Not Yet”

• Jesus inaugurated the Kingdom of God, but it’s not fully realized until His return.

• We see glimpses—healing, miracles, breakthrough—but not the full restoration yet. In heaven, every tear will be wiped away (Revelation 21:4).

6. Faith Is Often Tested in the Waiting

Sometimes, not being healed becomes the very arena where faith is refined, deepened, and strengthened.

“Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him.” — Job 13:15

Final Thought:

Faith is not proven by whether healing happens—it’s proven by whether we still trust God when it doesn’t.

Knowing he can but won’t feels cruel and uncaring. Is God indifferent? Surely not. The evidence of his love points elsewhere, except here?

In the heart of pain and suffering. Where is he? Is he here? Why does he tolerate such circumstances regardless of the source, cause or reason?

We can believe and still suffer. We can trust and still not be healed. That doesn’t mean our faith is weak—it may mean it’s being made stronger.

So, are we to give up praying and asking. Why would we? While such things are beyond our understanding, we can only continue to pray, hope and trust. 

Although such suffering comes at a very high price, surely there is a purpose in it all. 

Lord may your grace be sufficient. Help see us through. Grant us strength and peace to navigate such waters. We believe you can. We also trust you have a plan and purpose in it all. 

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