15 Nov

Browns and Steelers Fight

Browns and Steelers Fight

Take a few minutes to watch this series of clips from last night’s Browns and Steelers game.

It was awful. Guys so mad that they blacked out. Can you relate?

Notice the apologies. The regret.

As adults, I think this level of outrage helps remind us of a child’s perspective when we lose control. God help us that it is not physically abusive but there is no question as to why the Lord says man’s anger does not produce His righteousness.

Our pasts don’t have to dictate our futures.

Having grown up in a home where domestic violence was prevalent, I can relate too well to the emotions present in these clips.

I am also grateful that it is possible for the apple to fall far from the tree with the help of others and the power of God’s love to transform lives.

Help is available for anger management. If you need to talk let me know.

https://youtu.be/eef-l5pcEIk

https://youtu.be/NXF2vqGej_8

https://youtu.be/KWF3cGKO9VQ

https://youtu.be/SpuWBD-n8E4

https://youtu.be/6Fv1d4bWlrI

10 Nov

In the moment

The view from my study reminds me a lot of life. The temperature in Oklahoma City will be 70 today and 17 by tomorrow night.

What a great opportunity to live in the moment and to appreciate the life I have today.

Tomorrow will have enough worries of it’s own. But as for today, I will  live in the sunshine. I will take it all in and as the cold hard days roll in, I will remember the good times rather than anticipate and worry about the cold front to come.

I will certainly do my best to be prepared and yet not be robbed of the joy of today.

Who knows, it is Oklahoma after all. Like life, things can change in a moment for better or worse regardless of the forecast!

Never a dull moment for sure. The spice of life is variety!

Did you notice the condensation trails jets left in the sky? What a great reminder to live free and reach for the stars as we fly towards our futures!

 

26 Oct

Out smarted?

Are we being out smarted?

Give some thought to this passage.

I am taken by the last line that basically says :

We can’t let the enemy outsmart us. For we are familiar with his evil schemes.

Surely we are aware of his schemes. Together we can help each other not be outsmarted by the enemy.

Are we being outsmarted?

Love isn’t always easy.

I heard recently that our quality of life is built on the quality of our relationships.

Relationships get really messy. Often times those we love the most hurt us the deepest.

Nonetheless, we have to move on. Enough is enough. We have to reach out. Try again and be ready to be disappointed, yet committed, to loving unconditionally.

Stupid is one thing. Being stubborn and bull headed is another. Boundaries are good and sometimes walls are required. Here on the Praire we like to say that good fences make for great neighbors. But let’s not get punked by the enemy and miss out on precious years and memories that can never be regained simply because we were outsmarted by evil.

Pick up the phone. Make the call. Send the text. Begin again. Say you’re sorry. Those three words are often the best way to say, “I love you.” These are the words the enemy hates the most! Let’s turn the table on him!

2 Corinthians 2:5-11 NLT

I am not overstating it when I say that the man who caused all the trouble hurt all of you more than he hurt me. Most of you opposed him, and that was punishment enough. Now, however, it is time to forgive and comfort him. Otherwise he may be overcome by discouragement. So I urge you now to reaffirm your love for him. I wrote to you as I did to test you and see if you would fully comply with my instructions. When you forgive this man, I forgive him, too. And when I forgive whatever needs to be forgiven, I do so with Christ’s authority for your benefit, so that Satan will not outsmart us. For we are familiar with his evil schemes.

22 Sep

Peace by piece

It seems at times that peace is ever illusive.

Just about the time your heart is at rest something creeps in and gives you a wet willy.

Out of nowhere, as you are minding your own business, influences outside your control, right or wrong, pick and poke at your peace of mind.

Is it possible to protect ourselves from the never ending cascading turmoil? Is peace possible?

It’s a big deal. A lack of peace leads to all kinds of ancillary issues. Stress, anxiety, worry, frustration, fatigue, confusion and anger are just a few of the side effects that a lack of peace produces.

So what is an otherwise peaceful person to do? What is the key to tranquility?

Somewhere, someone once said, “Don’t sweat the small stuff.” In other words, practicing peace by piece is the secret to serenity. We must be selective.

Rather than wear yourself out fretting over every little issue that pops up like the pesky varmints at the “Whack a Mole” game at the local arcade, we need to be selective when we decide which piece disturbs the peace.

Certainly, some things warrant a disturbance. There are times when we need a wake up call. But let’s be honest, most of the things that ruffle our feathers aren’t worth the dust they disturb.

Time takes care of the majority of the peace busters and selective hearing nearly takes care of all the rest. It’s time we holster the feather duster! Quit stirring it up!

Like my mother use to say, “In the word ignorance is the word ignore. Ignore ignorance.”

We would do well to ignore a large portion of the ignorance that seeks to disturb the peace, those pesky little pieces of stupidity that threaten to rattle our peace of mind.

We can gain peace by piece. Pick the piece that is truly threatening the peace and let everything else simply trickle away like water off a duck’s butt.

Swatting at flies has little effect on stopping the insanity. Stop waving and flapping your arms! You look like a scarecrow in a wind storm! Isolate the stinky piece and remove it. Peace by piece!

When we do, “peace by piece”, we gain back the calm we so desire, one piece at a time.

26 Aug

Asleep at the rudder

Do you ever feel as though the Lord is asleep at the rudder while the raging storms of life are crashing down on your dingy?

The waves are seemingly relentless, never ending as they pound your boat. The storm is fierce. It is taking its toll. You are taking on water to the brim. You bail water as fast as you can all while the Lord sleeps appearing oblivious to the turmoil and pending doom and devastation that is certain to unfold as the boards creak, the joints loosen and the world around you begins to fall a part.

In a panicked frenzy you scream at the top of your lungs, “Don’t you even care that we are going to drown!”

From a stupor he rubs his eyes, yawns and stretches out his arms and in an instant everything calms down. “Why all the fuss? I was sleeping so good. Is there a problem? Can you guys quiet down? Can’t you see I’m trying to catch a cat nap? Have a little faith. I got this.”

Say what? Are you kidding? The whole world was crumbling in and then the sleeping beauty wakes up from a nap and everything is all better?

Seems ridiculous, but yes. The truth is, he does care. He is fully aware and he wants us to take a cue from him and chill out.

Come what may, he’s got this. Sink or swim. We are in the boat with him. Could there be a better place to be than in a dangerous boat with the captain who created the sea?

In life, our boats will often be filled with waves and waves of challenges but when we have a little faith, we can experience the wonder of his power as we too are filled with awe as he rolls over and goes back to sleep having calmed the storm.

10 Aug

THE 12 MINUTE CHALLENGE

It takes less than 12 minutes a day to read the Bible through in a year.

It takes approximately 60 hours to read the Bible through annually.

It takes 52 hours to read the Old Testament and 18 hours to read the New Testament.

It takes 71 hours to read the entire Bible aloud.

The longest book, Psalms, takes about 5 hours.

The book of Luke can be read in under 3 hours.

The Bible can be read 4 times a year when read less than one hour per day.

There are about 622,771 words in the Old Testament and 184,590 in the New Testament, a grand total of 807, 361.

There are 39 books in the Old Testament.

There are 27 books in the New Testament.

FUN OBSERVATION:

3×9=27

See it?

39 in old. 27 in the new.

I have a Chronological Bible Reading Plan that I use. I love it!

If you are interested in the plan, let me know and I’ll send it to you!

My goal is to give each of my children and grandchildren a well read Bible, complete with margin notes and an accompanied prayer journal!

 

10 Jul

Of equal value?

Which of these dollars is more valuable than the others? Some are clean, fresh and crisp while others are dirty, worn out and beat up. Truth is, they are all of equal value.

Dollars are a lot like people, some are clean, fresh and crisp while others are dirty, worn out and beat up. But the truth remains, they are all of equal value.

We do well to remember that our value is not based on our outward appearance or what we can produce but rather who we really are, created with value by the Lord, the one who sees our worth regardless of our condition!

 

04 Jul

What do you have to hide?

What do you have to hide?

Former NFL quarterback Steve McNair led a double life.

Living a double life isn’t half of what it’s cut out to be! It is often a symptom of a life that is falling apart in one way or another.

Maybe it is time to come out of hiding and come clean before it is too late?

Don’t go it alone. Find someone you can trust. Spill the beans and regain a life worth living not a life spent in hiding.

https://www.usatoday.com/story/sports/nfl/2019/07/04/steve-mcnair-death-10-year-anniversary-titans-sahel-kazemi/1646163001/