When you say, “One of these days. Some day soon. Eventually. When the time is right. Tomorrow. Next time. Once I get through this. After I catch my breath.”
What you are really saying, “When hell freezes over. Tomorrow never comes. I had good intentions. I just never got around to it. I changed my mind.”
Do yourself and others a favor. Say what you mean. Mean what you say. Or, maybe just don’t say anything at all.